PRIMMY'S CORNER: VIDEO: I AGREE WITH TOKE MAKINWA TO SOME EXTENT (DON'T SLAVE FOR A BOYFRIEND)

I am not a fan of Toke Makinwa but to be honest, she doesn't deserve all d insult meted out on her for this video mostly from Nigerian guys. As far as I am concerned Toke has not said anything bad in fact she made so really really valid points that you are domesticated and can do household chores doesn't mean you should go and slave for a man that is not your husband.
Going to a guy's house everyday to cook, clean, scrub and service him at night is not a guarantee that he will marry you I have seen a case  where a girl slaved for a man n his mum and at then end of the day they guy married someone else some women do these things at the beginning and the moment the guy marries them they stop doing they same chores that got them then ring. Love has no condition men know their wives from the moment they set eyes on them chore or no chores. I have a friend who can't cook to save their lives or even pick up a broom, but they are married why because the guys loved them for who they are.

PRIMMY'S CORNER: WHAT'S ALL THE FUSS ABOUT CHRISTMAS?

As I get older in life I begin to realise that there are some things I used to do, used to like that I really dislike eg parties (it takes me about one week to prepare myself physiologically, think of what to wear, and how to go about applying my makeup) going out.  I am a typical Sagittarius, we are seen as the extrovert, but honestly I am a big time introvert I can stay in my house for one month and not look out of the window, I hate driving and people talking to my when I am driving the list goes on. 

PRIMMY'S CORNER: I AM BACK Y'ALL

Yippee it feels good to be back, I have missed you guys my Podstars, I promise not to disappear again emmmm hold on a bit, yep only when I have exams lol. Anyways its good to be back. I wish you all a merry  Xmas in advance.

PRIMMY'S CORNER: GET OFF YOUR BACKSIDE

We might not all be rich, but we do have one thing in common with the rich that is dreams, vision and ambition yes we do the only difference is that they pursue their dreams and we don't. It pains me when I see people mostly the ladies channel their energy in to parties, aso-ebi, fashion and gossip, why the guys spend their time partying, drinking and smoking themselves to stupor. I call that NFA (No future ambition) please that same energy can be channelled in to something useful and productive.  
The other day I was talking to a young lady about what she intends to do, all I Kept hearing is I for, I would have, I love, in my head I was like she is going round and round in circles with no clear definition of purpose then finally she ended with "I lack the wherewithal" Gbosa!!! I looked at her, she had on human hair expensive jewellery, phone, an expensive bag and a flashy car in my head I was like you gat to be freaking kidding me.

PRIMMY'S CORNER: LET GO AND LET GOD

Few weeks back I was so distraught it was so bad that I cried and went to my spiritual head Pastor Lawrence Oyetunji who helped me build up my faith and strength. You see I didn't lack anything as per the basic necessities of life e.g food cloths name it I was okay in that department lol, but I knew something was wrong spiritually and emotionally I just knew I was empty, I knew I wasn't where I am suppose to be in life because God has a purpose and a better plan for me. In life we all have dreams and aspirations some we achieve some we don't, I had so many dreams whilst growing up some I achieved  some I didn't the ones I achieved are not the ones I want, though I am passionate about them. I know I have some much to offer in life but lack the wherewithal to carry them out, the more I thought of my projects the more I am  saddened by it. 

PRIMMY'S CORNER: DREAMS WITHOUT GOALS ARE JUST DREAMS

Sitting here in my living room reflecting on life I realized that dreams without goals are just dreams, some of us are still in that baby stage where we dream, sit and expect things to just happen, I always liken such thinking or beliefs to outright laziness Its like saying I have faith that I will get a job with out going out to look for a job, you have go out to places drop your CV  and pray for God's mercy and favour to speak for you after all the bible say faith without works is dead.

PRIMMY'S CORNER: JOIN ME SHOUT A MASSIVE CONGRATULATIONS TO ALHAJI JOHN (KO EASY)

 

My cousin Alhaji John woke me up with a shout of breaking news ( in my head I was like wetin don happen again, maybe they have released the Chibok girls)

PRIMMY'S CORNER: ANGER LEADS TO DETERMINATION, DETERMINATION LEADS TO RESULTS

Sitting down in my living room thinking about life and what pushes me to be the best I can be  I realised that challenges and anger are one of the few things that brings out the best in me (weird),  when people annoy me I get angry and bitter then my anger gives way to determination, determination to prove to myself that I am strong, I am fierce, I am who God says I am, I am not limited by how the world see me, that being down is not being out and guess what people my determination leads to results.

PRIMMY'S CORNER: HOW I ALMOST GAVE UP

I have always had dreams and visions which I  have struggled to birth, some I gave birth to successfully other I had miscarried due to one reason or the other most especially in the area of finance, I was so heartbroken because the ones I miscarried where the ones I am more passionate about.
it got to a stage I became so frustrated and angry with myself for not being able to  carry out my dreams I questioned God (now I no better now not to question God) I gave up everything even blogging with sadness and anger.  After a while I realized giving up and not fighting for what I believed in was  failure on my part so picked up myself and forged ahead it is not easy and I am not there yet, I am still struggling and  I have made up my mind to achieve my dreams with the resources around me  and the grace of God,  instead of waiting for a huge budget (Trust me that budget will come because my God has said so).

PRIMMY'S CORNER: OBESERE RELEASES VCD ON RAPE ALLEGATION

I just fainted and woke up when I came across this post online chineke, who does this how can Obesere release a VCD of his alleged rape incident and then put the photo of the victim on the cover? Gosh he has no legal and moral right to paste the picture of the lady on the VCD. This is the height of impunity of the highest order. Not only did him make her a victim but he just made her a target this is so wrong and tacky why is he trying so hard to exonerate himself? I just lost all respect for him this can only happen in Naija. The VCD contains Obesere’s interview and that of his witness, Alhaja Bolatito Omo Owo  was released on the 17th of March 2014. Learnt the VCD sold out like honey. If you missed the story on my blog click on HERE

PRIMMY'S CORNER: DISGUSTING JAMAICAN WOMEN DANCING SO PROVOCATIVELY WITH LITTLE BOYS 18+

I came across this disgusting video yesterday I immediately started praying that Jesus should come asap because he is the only one that can save our kids from this wicked and pervert world. After watching the video I starting asking myself what the hell are these women thinking? do they not feel anything strange and wrong with this dancing? ewwwww even the thought of it makes me feel like throwing up. 
This happens to be a street carnival in Jamaica, you can see these little boys dancing with adult women provocatively from behind grabbing the women’s bum and thrusting and pounding their little willies at them, why shameless adult watched and enjoyed every bit of it. This is obviously not their first time of indulging in this kind of dance by the way where are the parents of these kids? I just hope these agbaya women and men have not start molesting them sexually, to think the adults around do not see anything wrong the dance is just disgusting and crazy hisssssss. God save our kids

PRIMMY'S CORNER: BLOG POST ON DUBLIN ADULTERY SCANDAL DELETED ON REQUEST

I am not a malicious person like some people seem to think, I saw a story on-line and decided to post it on my blog only for me to get a negative response and even people threatening my life. Well as for the threat I wasn't really scared because I know they are all ranters and toothless barking dogs. I don't know the people involved, I got the story from an immigrant newspaper and posted it believing the story is true, some people called me and pleaded with me to please take it down that they know the couples involved but  due to the threats I decided to leave the story and see what all these toothless spineless anonymous commentators would do, 
I was more particular about the expose on me and my family because everybody knows I am an open book and a fearless one at that and I am always of the opinion that there is nothing anybody would do to you that has never being done before. For those of you who know me, you know I am not easily  moved by threats and sentiments because I have been there and like I always say I have seen 99 and what my Naija people call helele in my life any other thing na jara so for all you coming to my blog saying rubbish and running your dirty mouth I am not moved one bloody freaking bit. blogging is not my life or means of livelihood  but a hobby so make una hug transformer. The gist of the matter now is that I received  two very important calls from two people I appreciate a lot, the fact that they took out time to talk to me and finally convinced me to please take it down for the sake of God and the future  I will obliged them, because they say respect is reciprocal. kai e pain me shaaa to take this post down. Thanks to those of you who stood up for me, God bless you for visiting and commenting on my blog as for you haters keeping hating hisssssssss. Am outta here y'all

PRIMMY'S CORNER: NO MONEY NO SEX DO YOU AGREE?

Saw thing on instagram and thought I should share, my question is do you agree? and Please don't leave comments on my FB page thank you loads

PRIMMY'S CORNER: FAKE BRITICO TOKE MAKINWA SAYS NIGERIAN ACCENT IS “SAVAGE”

I can’t stand fake people after watching Toke’s interview I have come to the conclusion that she is the fakest bleached Nigerian ever. Toke recently sat down for an interview with Genevieve Magazine Show on Igroove Radio to talk about her boyfriend, accent and bleaching. when asked by the interviewer Liz Yemoja about her accent that there were speculations that  it's fake because she spent just one year in the Uk  Toke responded by saying she had to maintain her British accent because she had to go out and look for jobs. She then opened her stupid Trap to say “Or do you expect me to sound like a savage?”

Whatttttt  our beautiful Nigeria accent savage to think that I liked Toke and watch her regular Vlogs  hmmmm Toke maka why nu?  Are you trying to say we Nigerians are savage if you answer is yes then you just called you parents “Savage” yesssss my people I had to go there oooo 

PRIMMY'S CORNER: SALAD VS SALED

Umu ala beke ge gbu kwa nmadu, went grocery shopping with my daughter Azania the other day whilst at the till we realized we forgot to buy salad cream we had to walk back to get one, after searching for some time we couldn’t find it so I stopped one of the staff to ask her where we could find salad cream, in my typical niaja accent I was like;

Me: where can I find salad cream please?

Staff: what?

Me: salad cream

Staff: what? 

PRIMMY'S CORNER: MEMO TO ANONYMOUS

All you lowlife haters coming to my blog hiding behid the mask as anonymous, do me a favour why don't you take another bold step and comment with you real name the saddest part is that you hater know me very well and you leave hints that give the fact that your jealous self know me, I put up a post about my son's dead fish just to help ease up your hypertensive and depressive life rather than be thankful for this therapeutic measures somebody that knows me very well came here to scribble gibberish insulting my in d name of advice, I don't blame you, because you are so blind to see the comic side of the post. first and foremost its my blog and my space, I choose to  post whatever I want with no apology, if you don't like reading Primmy's corner take a tour within the blog and suit yourself with other post. As you can see I am smiling and dancing  in the photo above that shows I don't take life seriously and I'm aging gracefully to the Glory of God.  Anyways thanks for the traffic I just made few dollars off you and from today I will be deleting all disrespectful and hateful comments and all fake friends/acquaintance in my life die by fire in Jesus name, to those Poddesk readers out there that saw the comic side of the post (POST) I say thank you for reading and visiting after-all  you only live once YOLO!!!!!!

PRIMMY'S CORNER: ALL THE SCOOP ABOUT MY TRIP TO NIGERIAN -PRIMROSE

Thank God for journey mercies back home to Ireland, I travelled out of Dublin with my son to Imo state Nigeria for his late dad’s burial ceremony, it was a very sad experience because he was such a young man with many unaccomplished dreams really sad. As usual I missed a whole lot of happenings in Dublin and the world like the Stella Damasus V Senator Yerima debate on Aljazeera’s the stream, Bianca Ojukwu v FFK  and the testifier Kemi Omololu  Olunloyo aka KOO to the most interesting “9ice live in Dublin concert” , learnt there was a lot of drama,hmmmmm allegedly it wasn’t a small marra according to my olofofo antenna somebody was punched, outstanding debts of two years not paid by the celebrity, a certain Nigerian artist coming to perform without  visa, arrogance towards fans on the part of some artists  and strictly no photo session with fans at the awards dinner night held for 9ice except for VIPS, seriously? the list is endless , story for another day cos I am still trying to gather my information *winks*( if you have any info or tips on this story kindly inbox me @ primroseobata@gmail.com) , wives leaving their husbands name it even my kids had something to say, the sweetest  being thank God you are back mummy we miss you . I guess I should say hot gist coming soon.

PRIMMY CORNER: YEAHHHHHH I AM BACK !!!!!

Hello everybody, I am so excited to be back on my blog and most especially Primmy’s corner I have missed you guys so much. I really want to give baba God a big thank you for everything, I guess you guys must be wondering where I have been and what I have been up to lately, the truth is I have been here and there reflecting on my life on those little things we take for granted and taking life one step at a time ( I am a firm believer in reflecting and rediscovering yourself once in a while) it’s being one heck of a journey, it’s being crazy, interesting, frustrating, funny, and stressful, interestingly these past few days of incommunicado I was able to reflect on the things that made me strong as a woman, things that tried to break me but didn’t succeed, friends, family and career . In my time of reflection I found God yeah I found God almighty he is faithful and how awesome and amazing it is having a relationship with God, it has given me hope, confidence and more faith in God ha ha ha ha ha I know exactly what is going on in your head and mind, how come she is just knowing God is she not a member of CACC and also in the choir  my dears having a relationship with God  and going to church are too different things trust me I can go on and on but that will be a topic for another day and I can proudly say I AM BORN AGAIN believe it or not.

PRIMMY'S CORNER: HOW DARE YOU COME ON MY BLOG AND SAY TRASH HISSSS

Few days ago my attention was drawn to a comment on my segment yours sincerely where I talk about my weekly activities, I call it my personal diary. Normally I don’t pay attention to such comments not because I don’t have anything to say but because I feel everybody is entitled to their opinion on every and anything including me hence I left my comment open no approval  needed to leave a comment. if you did not read my post click  HERE

When I read this comment I was like WTH seriously? You see for those who know me I really don’t care what people say about me because I am me you either like me or hate me and seriously I will not dignify you with a response but when you insult my kids you have crossed the line and touched me in the most sensitive part of my heart and to this person I say a big God help you that you hid your identity under anonymous.Normally I would have ignored it but for the fact you mention my kids i will gladly reply because nobody mentioned my kids and goes  free. 

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"abeg primrose make we hear word abeg you talk too much attention seeker,how on earth this matter come take concern anybody you always praise your self and your ugly pikins them lekuamu jare?"

First and foremost my name is primrose I am a typical Sagittarian, by nature I am an extrovert, loud talkative (when I want to be) and very in your face kind of girl who says things the way she  sees  them, so if your  stupid silly jealous self can’t  take it next bus stop or better still hug a transformer.
Secondly Poddesk blog is mine so I can decide to post whatever and whenever I like, you foolish jealous bitch, if you don’t like it then don’t visit or like (in my Osazee Odewigie voice). More after the cut

PRIMMY'S CORNER: HANGING OUT WITH SINGER ESSENCE AND MY GIRLS

Hi people it’s being ages, I have been kinda busy (whoa I sound so American) ha ha ha anyways how have you guys being? Hope all is well with you as for me and mine we are doing great. Gosh I don’t know where to start from; I think I better start from last weekend.  I had a few friends over including Kennis music label singer Essence of Facebook Lover Fame (I wonder if my sentence make sense English is not my strong point Lol) we had made fun from the food ha ha ha ha i am laughing because I promised them stir fry and rice but ended up serving  them boiled potatoes and chicken sauce they had no choice other  than to eat it ha ha ha ha you should have seen their faces,  I smell revenge somewhere hmmm I am a big girl so bring it on girls.  More after the cut.