•Avoid getting dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2years old. Learn to excuse yourself.
•If you have to hire a house-help, kindly take them for HIV screening to determine their status, properly interview them and make up your mind to treat them well.
•Never allow any adult refer to your new born as ‘my wife’ or ‘my husband’.
•Never tempt your husband with your sister or friend or else he’d say it's hers and the devil’s fault.
•Avoid unnecessary familiarity with the opposite sex and make sure you take care of your husband yourself so as not to lead him into temptation.
•Whenever your child goes out to play with friends, make sure you look for a way to find out the kind of play they played together, as young people sexually abuse themselves now.
•Never force your child to visit any adult he/she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes fond of a particular adult.
•Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn, you might need to patiently ask a lot of questions.
•If you don’t teach your children about sex, the society will teach them the wrong values and most likely, in very hard ways.
•It's always advisable you go through any new material like cartoons you buy for them before they start seeing it themselves.
•Teach your 3year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone, including you, touch those areas. Remember, charity begins at home and with YOU.
•Blacklist all materials you think could threaten the sanity of your child, that is, music, movies and musicians, and let them understand the value of standing out of the crowd.
•Once your child complains about a particular person, don’t keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show you can always defend him/her!
*Now, if you find this useful enough, send to others. Thanks and God bless."
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